These days it is easy for man to fall for a cute smile and nice body. With the way that people are pertraded today in society, it only makes it easier for someone to meet the wrong person. It all boils down to the connection that you have with someone new. My advice is try loving their mind first and there body second. When you try loving their mind first, you will find out more about the person that you may like or cause you to run away quickly. It gives you the opportunity to make a deeper connection than just the physical. Loving a person's mind these days could be a challenge because everyone likes something good to look at. That is a preference that both men and women are guilty of from time to time. Although this is an issue, challenge yourself to be better than most people. Challenge yourself to love their mind and you will find out if that person is worth your time or not.